Law of Attraction Success Stories
By Sonia Miller | July 3, 2009
Hey Seekers!
Just did an interview with Jonathan Lockwood of www.LawofAttractionSuccessStories.com. He’s a podcaster and a blogger with some great resources. To hear my interview and check out his site, just click on the link above.
Choose YOUR Reality! tm
Sonia
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Law of Attraction – Creating Our Reality Does NOT Mean Controlling It
By Sonia Miller | June 26, 2009
I finally found a word to describe how I’m feeling and what I’m doing since my mom passed away on May 15th. I’m unwinding. As her caregiver for four years, even when I wasn’t “doing” stuff for her, my mind was preoccupied.
I did a lot of things “right” in caring for her and caring for myself while I was caring for her.
I slept.
I ate.
I asked for help.
I received help.
I’d set intentions.
I’d meditate.
I’d exercise when I could.
I’d read helpful books.
I’d open my heart.
I’d set boundaries.
I’d feel my feelings……
And yet, the one thing I couldn’t do was ELIMINATE the fact that my mom was battling cancer and I was her caregiver. It was among the hardest things I’ve ever gone through and it was stressful no matter how you sliced it. I would have LOVED to create a very different reality, but hard as I might, I couldn’t. I wanted control over everything and I had control over nothing!
As I find myself unwinding, I find myself experiencing S-P-A-C-E in my life in ways I haven’t for a long time. Space to be. Space to have nothing vying for attention in my brain. Space to be spontaneous. Space to rest. Space to catch up on the mundane. And in the space, I’m feeling things I haven’t had the space to feel in a long time. Loneliness for one. I realized the other day that I have no social life. And I haven’t for a looooong time. So, with that awareness, I’ve become clear about some new intentions. To reconnect with friends and make new ones. What a happy thought!
Anyway, I digress… what I wanted to share is that in these spaces, I reconnected with an important Law of Attraction concept. And it relates to one of the biggest distortions out there. It goes something like this: Just because we’re told that we “create our reality” does NOT mean that we get to CONTROL our reality. We don’t.
Just like we don’t get to control what the economy is doing, what world leaders are doing, what the weather is doing, or what our loved ones (or enemies for that matter) are doing, we also don’t get to control how blessings manifest in our lives, small and large, how miracles occur, or how the Universe orchestrates things better than we could ever imagine.
Creating our reality is about CHOOSING how we will RELATE to what the Universe is giving us at any given moment. There will always be events and conditions we’d rather NOT experience. Our power, however, is not decided by whether or not we can determine a certain outcome (i.e. get control over the situation).
Instead, our power as co-creators comes from…
1) ACCEPTING what is (i.e. releasing any resistance that might give an unwanted situation more life)
2) SUSPENDING JUDGMENT (i.e. rather than labeling something as “bad,” we tell ourselves, “It is not good, it is not bad. It simply is what it is.”)
3) REMAINING OPEN AND TRUSTING THAT THERE IS GOOD HERE (… because Source is ALL-GOODNESS and Source is All-That-Is. Therefore there MUST be GOOD here.)
4) ALLOWING THE GOOD TO BE REVEALED… and when it does…
5) GIVE GRATEFUL THANKS!
THIS is how we create our reality!
Choose YOURS – okay?
Sonia
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The Attraction Distraction #1 Metaphysical Book on Amazon.com
By Sonia Miller | June 24, 2009
Dear Seekers,
Thought I’d share this latest press release!
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
[Dallas, OR – June 24, 2009] Author and international life coach, Sonia Miller’s book, The Attraction Distraction hits #1 on Amazon.com. The Attraction Distraction: Why the Law of Attraction Isn’t Working for You and How to Get Results – Finally! is lauded as the book that decisively illuminates frustrating misunderstandings and information gaps for Law of Attraction seekers across the United States.
Marsha from South Carolina, an avid spiritual student shares, “I can only speak for myself, but since reading this book I can honestly say I have a much better understanding of how the Law of Attraction works and why it wasn’t working the way I wanted it too. THIS BOOK ANSWERS QUESTIONS I HAVE HAD FOR YEARS!”
Laura from Oregon celebrates, “I have read dozens and dozens of books on manifesting that left me feeling like the authors were dangling a carrot in front of me, that I couldn’t quite get… Sonia explains exactly what to do and how to do it. Half-way through her book I started weeping and they were tears of joy and relief. I had finally found my answers!”
Beyond providing highly sought answers, The Attraction Distraction delivers on its promise of helping seekers get results. Naomi of Massachusetts relates, “This book has everything you need all in one place. I have already noticed some things in my life start to change for the better as I apply Miller’s concepts.”
For seekers who would like more information about how to get results with the Law of Attraction, a wealth of free tips, tools, articles, and audios can be found at www.SuccessfortheSoul.com. Excerpts from the book as well as other customer reviews can be found at Amazon.com.
Sonia M. Miller, BBA, MSW is founder of www.SuccessForTheSoul.com, a virtual resource center designed to help people create the personal changes that lead to success, healing and transformation. Developer of The Success for the Soul® Ultimate Manifestation System, Sonia has created powerful programs which support seekers in realizing their greatest aspirations. Her products and services include live and virtual classes, home-study programs, private and group coaching, speaking and writing.
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Law of Attraction – Acting As If
By Sonia Miller | June 5, 2009
A long time ago, I noticed that the Universe seems to “speak to me” in themes. Many times in the course of doing energy work throughout a particular week, up to 75% of my clients will be clearing out the SAME issues, (core wounds, limiting beliefs, emotional trauma energy). What’s so uncanny, is that I can work for a year and never see that particular issue come up, when suddenly it emerges and “everyone” is dealing with it.
Well, this week the theme is “Acting As If” and it has been coming through loud and clear. Two days ago I taught Lesson #4, “Maximize Your Action,” of the Ultimate Manifestation System Boot Camp. One of the five guidelines I teach is the principle of “Acting As If.”
And just now I completed a coaching call with a client who, as we burrowed down to where she was stuck, became clear that she was holding back from really claiming her power. She knew who and how she needed to BE. This bigger, grander version of herself was already within her, but she was “hiding out.” I suggested she give the “bigger her” a name, and to practice calling her out by name when she felt herself shrinking. Instantly she knew. When she was playing small, she was “being Susie.” But when she was owning her power she was “being Susan.”
Then what arrives in my inbox today? And article on “Acting As If” from one of my favorite entrepreneur coaches! Of course! And so, with her permission, I pass it along to you. Whether you use this principle in business or in your personal life, it is powerful stuff – and it works! Enjoy!
Choose YOUR Reality!tm
Sonia
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How To Activate the “Law of AS IF …” In Your Business
by Heather Dominick
EnergyRICH® Entrepreneur Success & Master Coach
Remember the story of the “Little Engine That Could”? This little train had always pulled small loads, but one day it was called upon to deliver something greater. First, it had a hard time getting the load to move at all so it cheered itself on by puffing, “I think I can, I think I can, I think I can …” The load began to move and then natural momentum began to take over at the top of the hill and it was pulled forward -smoothly and easily …” Ahhh – such a nice story, isn’t it?
Think your business is any different?
Well, your answer says a lot about whether it is … or it isn’t.
In order to accomplish anything, you have to think and act AS IF you can. When you behave as if a task is possible, existing laws come into effect to help you. And here’s a major EnergyRICH® Insider Secret Tip for you: when you reach the point of behaving AS IF the action were already accomplished, you receive even more help!
Consider this: The “Law of AS IF …” has been activated by great achievers of all times and situations. Barbra Streisand was told that her voice was not suited for large audiences … however she behaved AS IF and even though large venues still scare her – she has performed to the largest sold out audiences of all times. Christopher Columbus behaved AS IF he could sail from Spain to India … Alexander Graham Bell behaved AS IF he could talk through a device to someone in another room … You don’t really think you and your business are any different do you? Or Do You?
Well, what I’ve come to understand is that most entrepreneurs do activate the Law of AS IF … as if they can’t do it. A lot of energy is invested in all the reasons why something won’t work:
· “I don’t have the time …”
· “I don’t have the money …”
· “Others in my field/city/country don’t do it this way …”
· “It will take too much work …”
· “It’s a bad time of year …”
· “I need to learn more …”
· “If only my parents/spouse/the lottery would give me money …”
The Law is activated, but the energy is being directed away from what they say they want. So there is an energy mis-match, but the Law doesn’t know this. It’s just following the natural, energetic flow of the science that created it.
I learned how to turn this around for myself in a big way and to really have this Law working for me:
I behaved AS IF I could find an affordable apartment in Manhattan. Did it.
I behaved AS IF I could find true-love after 30. Did it.
I behaved AS IF I could make a high 6-figure living as a coach. Doing it.
I now hold the energy of the Law of AS IF for all EnergyRICH® Clients and EnergyRICH® Business Boot Campers and teach specific techniques and tools that has each EnergyRICH® Entrepreneur activating this for themselves as a consistent part of the growth of their business.
What is it about this Law that works?
Some may say it enlists the aid of the subconscious mind and I sense this is part of it, but I also sense that there is something HUGE at work here. When you feel a desire to do or to be something you haven’t done or been before, you are responding to a divine idea pushing toward manifestation. When you consciously resolve to take action toward realization of that desire, you mentally CLAIM your good. When you behave AS IF you can accomplish your desire, you totally believe that it will be fulfilled. Total belief is active belief including both mental acceptance of the idea and positive action upon it. That’s it. AND such belief both springs from and activates faith — the mightiest power of all.
See, here’s the thing: You are designed not only to contemplate divine ideas, but also to manifest them. So when you make a tiny effort of your own, just as the Little Engine did, you find one law after another coming to your aid.
Now, again, remember this: do not misuse the AS IF Law. It operates whether you use it consciously or not. So, if you behave AS IF something not so great exists – that works too. Get it? And either way the Law is contagious. Other energies respond to the activation of the Law of AS IF – always, no matter what. So, imagine, what contagiously would happen (more clients, more money, more freedom…) when you acted AS IF with …
· Your EnergyRICH® Prospect to Profits Process™
· Your clients and customers
· Your marketing
· Your business vision
· and more …
How do you CHOOSE to activate the Law of AS IF for YOU?
Heather Dominick, is founder of the EnergyRICH® Success System for Entrepreneurs, the proven step-by-step program to help you partner your inner and outer approach to business for profitable productivity that is fused with JOY! To sign up for her freebie how-to articles and no-charge teleclasses on how to create an EnergyRICH® Business as a WomenPreneur, visit www.energyrichcoach.com
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Law of Attraction – Abraham-Hicks Quote
By Sonia Miller | June 4, 2009
Just got this through Facebook.
Such a great reminder. I loved it. Thought I’d pass it along today.
“Trying too hard IS resisting… for this reason — think about this — if you decide that you want to go to the grocery store and buy a quart of milk, do you ever find yourself trying too hard? Or do you just go get it?
And the reason you just go get it is because you have absolute knowledge – you KNOW. You know you have the ability to go, you know you have the money in your purse, you know the milk will be there when you get there. In other words, there is no doubt and so there is no trying against anything. And so whenever you’re trying too hard, what is happening is there is a part of you that is not believing that it can be.”
Extract from Abraham-Hicks tape G-8/22/90
Choose YOUR Reality! tm
Sonia
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Law of Attraction – The Creative Power of TRANSITION
By Sonia Miller | May 25, 2009
You know, I’ve learned something about myself and blogging. I really don’t like to write about myself unless I can somehow turn a personal anecdote into an offering – something that provides food for thought, encouragement, or inspiration.
And so, during these eleven days – the personal leave I’ve taken since my mother’s passing – even though I’ve wanted to connect with you (I didn’t want to just disappear), I didn’t know what to write about. I felt like I had nothing to give. The truth is that I needed and wanted life to be about MY needs. I just wanted to BE.
~ I didn’t want to be “on”.
~ I didn’t want to think or make any decisions that weren’t absolutely necessary.
~ I didn’t want to “have to” anything.
~ I didn’t want a schedule, or an alarm clock.
~ I didn’t want to “surrender” to other people’s needs, or to fulfill commitments.
After four years of caring for my mother, worrying about her, worrying about taking care of her while still wanting and having my own life – wanting to be present and available for my husband, our kids, my friends and my clients (and often feeling like I wasn’t doing any of those things well). Holding a BIG GIANT SPACE for many different feelings: love, care, concern, gratitude, grief, anger, burden, obligation, resentment, and exhaustion… after four years of that, I just wanted to have life on MY TERMS, even if only for a week.
And so I have. (As much as is realistically possible.)
Chris my husband has deftly done the River Dance of emotional spousal support, hopping between giving me my space and doing things for me. The kids have been incredibly understanding amidst mommy’s explanations of “what’s going on” and thank you’s for their extra patience. My clients have been incredibly loving, patient, understanding and supportive. And my friends have done their own River Dance of support. (Bless you, all!)
All this has given me a symbolic transitional time of sorts. I mean I know I’ll be in transition for longer than eleven days, but this time-off felt almost ceremonial.
~ A crossing of the bridge from a life of caring for mom with cancer, to a life complete with that journey.
~ A time of giving to myself so that I can give to others again, the way I want to and love to.
~ A time to, as Abraham-Hicks teaches, “pick up my oars” and let my boat simply turn around on its own. To stop paddling so hard upstream and remember that everything I want is downstream.
And what has all this “me time” given me? A connection once again to all of you!
This time of transition has reinforced for me, once again, an idea I believe in strongly.
That TRANSITION doesn’t just happen, it is something that needs to be acknowledged. It is something that needs to be honored. Yes, life is full of endings and beginnings. But between them are transitions. And transitional times, when properly acknowledged, can be some of the most powerful times of life. When we allow ourselves to simply “BE,” we create a space. We become more able to live in the NOW. We endeavor to release the past. We give ourselves permission to refrain from grasping at the future. We flow through the air between the trapeze bars… in FAITH.
Yes, it can be uncomfortable and downright scary. But that usually happens because we don’t understand that transition is normal. Transition is healthy. Transition is necessary. When we learn how to BE in transition – allowing ourselves to be in the void, in the unknown – we let go of control. And when we release control, we become receptive to the Divine. We become the powerful manifestors that we can be because we ALLOW the infinite well-being that already is, into our lives.
Choose YOUR Reality! tm
Sonia
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Transitions….
By Sonia Miller | May 19, 2009
Well… I’ve been avoiding writing this post, because I’m trying to find the “right” way to say this, but I can’t seem to, so I’ll just say it.
After a 4 year journey with cancer, my mom passed away last Friday, May 15, 2009 at 2:50am. She was diagnosed the week before Mother’s Day four years ago, and passed the week after Mother’s Day four year’s later. I have yet to discover all of the symbolism associated with this, but I can tell you that my mother represented opportunities for my spiritual development in deep and profound ways.
Thank you dearly to all that have sent loving prayers, thoughts, and words. You gave me and my mom strength during a difficult time.
Many ask, “How are you?”
Overall, I’m very well.
I’m doing and being everything I encourage my clients to do and be during times of transition.
I’m BEING.
I’m honoring my emotions.
I’m doing what’s in front of me when that feels right.
I’m doing nothing when that feels right.
I’m being alone when I can and need to.
And connecting with others when I can and need to.
I feel peaceful.
And am so grateful in knowing that my mother is now at peace, surrounded by LOVE.
I’m taking this week off, both for personal time and to begin handling mom’s affairs.
And am open to what the future may bring.
Love and Gratitude,
Sonia
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Law of Attraction Network Radio – Audio is Up!
By Sonia Miller | May 5, 2009
Dear Seekers,
Wow! I’ve been getting such wonderful feedback on the interview I did with Constance Arnold, host of “Think, Believe, and Manifest”.
I have to admit, I was perspiring a little by the end of the show. Lots of GREAT questions from Constance with NO commercial breaks. If you want a high-content hour of Law of Attraction technology, this program is a must-listen. We talked about…
- What is the Law of Attraction?
- Why talk about God?
- What is the soul?
- Success with the Law of Attraction is not about the techniques.
- How to create affirmations that really work.
- How to identify what you want.
- How to become a vibrational match for your desires when “reality” conflicts with your intentions.
- The difference between motivational and metaphysical.
- Gratitude, Service, Life Purpose and more!
You can access the recording at:
http://www.loaradionetwork.com/hosts_18.html
Choose YOUR Reality!tm
Sonia
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Law of Attraction Talk Radio – Join me tonight!
By Sonia Miller | May 3, 2009
Please join me for my live interview with Constance Arnold on the Think, Believe and Manifest Show!
The lines and chat room will be open for your questions!
Here are the details:
Think, Believe, and Manifest Show
Sunday, May 3, 2009
4:00pm PST, 7:00pm EST
Go to: www.lawofattracttalkradio.com
and scroll down to the “Think, Believe, and Manifest Show”
OR
CLICK HERE to go straight to the show.
Choose YOUR Reality! tm
Sonia
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A Law of Attraction Perspective on the Swine Flu
By Sonia Miller | May 2, 2009
As most of you know, I recommend energy healing as a complimentary Law of Attraction tool for aligning with, allowing, and ultimate manifesting our greatest aspirations. Why? Because left to our own devices our unconscious minds are powerful influences regarding whether or not we can become a vibrational match to that which we desire.
You can practice all of the meditation, visualization, affirmation, and collaging techniques in the world, but many times seekers bump into blocks and areas of stuckness. Simply put, Energy Healing can remove the blocks and speed up your process. Personal experience, professional training, and the witnessing of countless clients confirms this for me to the depths of my being.
This being said, I thought I’d pass along an email I received from Dr. Yuen’s office. The Yuen Method is one of the energy healing modalities I’ve studied and use regularly with my clients. The author, Laura, drives home the most important Law of Attraction question here: What will you focus on? Evidence that you should panic? Or evidence that this is just another fear-based distraction that serves only to keep you disconnected from Source?
Read on for a light-hearted energetic perspective on the Swine Flu and if you’re inclined, you may decide to sign up for upcoming Yuen Method energy healing tele-classes.
Choose YOUR Reality! tm
Sonia
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(Reprinted with permission from www.YuenMethod.com)
A Yuen Student’s Perspective on the Swine Flu Hysteria, by Laura
Swine flu hysteria threatens to cause more disease than the so-called disease itself. At least that’s my opinion and my opinion is not alone. “Swine flu hysteria” may spread faster than the virus, critics say.
I don’t know about you folks, but I like the idea of being critical when it comes to disease. First of all, I don’t even like the word ‘disease’. Second of all, less than 151 confirmed cases of this particular ‘disease’ have been reported in 24 states.
“How bad can it get?” reporters keep asking, their eyes staring straight into the camera lens.
It always comes down to that nagging question, doesn’t it, folks? How bad can it get. Let’s all stop and think on just how bad it can get: thinking… thinking… thinking….The world ends in a pandemic!
OK, I’ve said it. Now we move on.
The sad reality is surgical masks are the hottest new item in Mexico City and emergency rooms all over the U.S. are packed with runny noses. Our old buddies, Homeland Security have even gotten into the act, and everybody knows Homeland security is the least reliable source of reality on this planet.
You want to really know how bad it can get? Any minute now, we’re going to get inundated with Hollywood remakes of those end of the world Germ Movies: Tom Cruise will be adjusting his manly microscope while feverishly looking for a cure before the heartless ‘Dick Cheney’ faction nukes his girlfriend.
Let’s get real, why don’t we? The media needs to feed. Pharmaceutical companies need to profit. The government needs to take your mind off the economy. And we need to arrive at the truth.
In a nutshell, we tend to focus on something fearful outside of ourselves, when the true fear is resonating within.
Enter Dr. Yuen and his deletion technique! Rid yourself of unwanted resonance! Kick that Piggy Flu fear in its little viral butt!
See what former presidential candidate Ron Paul has to say about the Swine flu from a physician’s standpoint but first………………..listen to this great tune on You Tube.
There’s still some 25 dollar slots in Dr. Yuen’s Saturday and Sunday Teleseminars, folks. Get in on the group flu correction. If you hurry you might get one of the last $59 dollar/5 issue slots still open for Sunday Follow this link and sign up now.
http://YMSeminars/.com/teleseminars
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